SHE

Ever heard of "Daughters" by John Mayer?
The song goes:

I know a girl
She puts the color inside of my world
She's just like a maze
Where all of the walls all continually change
And I've done all I can
To stand on her steps with my heart in my hands
Now I'm starting to see
Maybe it's got nothing to do with me.....


So true eh? Even in the most mundane of relationships,
there's always this factor that one party cant fathom. 
Be it the guy or the gurl, they will always grumble about
not being able to understand their other half. Maybe 
it's because of pressure from the environment,
problems given by others or themselves, or lack of communication, 
inability to understand certain aspects of their partners and so on so forth..
  THere's always excuses and more excuses..
(hay, who cant think of them when it's for their own personal good?) 
But, has anyone ever stop and ponder on the crux of all these problems? 
In any tight spot, there will always be this 
tiny knot that holds on to every strand of
the web, We just need to loosen this little knot, and no matter how
big and intimidating the situation is, we'll get through it. And often,
this weeny knot is within ourselves.The knot comes from within.
Our perspectives, individual opinions, morales, principles that we were taught
and abide by..will determine our way of tackling Life's webs. Believe it or not,
only if we get through the maze of walls we built it for own defense, then will
we be able to climb out of the bottomless vortex of Gordian knots..
  Stop And Think, my dears~